In an interview
some years ago the American entertainer Garrison Keillor recounted
how he remembers the emotional pain he endured
as a child of regularly being chosen last for any sports team
event.
“There
always came that moment,” he said “when
the team captains were down to their last grudging choices,
a slow
kid for a catcher, someone to stick out in right field where
nobody even hits it. I noticed they always choose the last
ones two at a time – ‘you and you’ because
it makes no difference. They regarded me and the other final
kids as being handicaps, ‘If I take him, then you’ve
got to take the other’, they say to themselves.
How
I longed, just once for the team leader to pick me first
and say, “Him, I want him – the skinny kid
with glasses and the black shoes”- but it never happened.
I was never chosen with much enthusiasm and to this day
I still feel the pain.”
Many
people in this life bear the scars of rejection. They have
had the stuffing knocked
out of them and they feel
generally worthless, useless and always struggle as regards
self-confidence.
How comforting and reassuring is the message of the Bible.
Scripture teaches that every individual is special and
valuable in the sight of God – quite the reverse from the way
the world often treats us.
“Are not five sparrows sold
for just two copper coins”, explained Jesus, “and
yet not one of them is forgotten before God. Fear not even
the very hairs on your head are all numbered”. We are
of such value and worth to God, that He cares about even
the tiniest details of our being. He died for each one of
us, not
just some but all, and He wants to have a private and personal
relationship with every single individual. Its quite an awesome
thought, but quite true, that if absolutely every single
person turned to Christ in the world, with the exception
of just one,
God would still not be happy. He would never be happy until
the final individual turned to Him.
A certain
speaker started off his seminar on God’s individual
love by holding up a £50 note. “Who would like
this £50 note?” he asked. Hands went up throughout
the audience. He then said, “I am going to give this £50
note to one of you but first let me do this”. He proceeded
to crumple it up. He then asked, “Who still wants it?” The
same hands went into the air. Well he replied, “What
if I do this?” He dropped it on the ground and started
to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up
all crumpled and now very dirty. “Now who still wants
it?” Again
the same hands went into the air.
“You have all learned an important lesson”, said the speaker. “no
matter what I do to this money, you still wanted it because
no matter what happended to it, it didn’t decrease
in its real value. Many times in our lives, we are dropped,
crumbled,
ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances
that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.
Scripture teaches however that no matter what has happened
or what will
happen, you will never lose your value in God’s eyes.
Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are priceless
to him.” How comforting it is to know that in this
day and generation when so many are regarded as mere “numbers” and
personal service is almost non-existent, God loves you
personally and is immensely concerned about your welfare
and future. No
wonder St Peter exhorts us to “cast all our cares
upon Him because He cares for you”.
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